Friday, December 12, 2014
"Nobody puts Baby in a Corner"
"Nobody puts Baby in a corner" - Patrick Swayze, Dirty Dancing
Did you see the movie? Remember that line? I remember the line, but it's been a long time - I actually watched the youtube clip when I was writing this (made me want to watch the movie again!)
Sometimes when I teach, that line pops into my head.
But this isn't about Dirty Dancing or Patrick Swayze or Baby.
As I move through life, I see alot of people in corners...they put themselves there or they've let other people put them there. They're small, they want to fit in or hide. They don't want to be big or better or special or stand out. They want to be accepted - not even for who they really are, but just accepted.
When I teach, I encourage my students to be be Big & Bold. To physically take up space on their mat. To be calm & confident & let their light radiate through them & out from them. To let their light shine. I encourage them to get comfortable with that, with being Big & Bright & Shiny. Not to worry what anyone else thinks about that. I encourage them not to hide.
I've been that person who doesn't want to be too bright, or bold or shiny. Because I didn't want to outshine someone else, because I wanted to fit in. Because I didn't really know that I could be any other way. Until I found yoga & some great teachers lit the way for me.
When you shine, you literally light the way for others. You have the possibility to inspire others. Being in the middle of the room, the front of the room, being anywhere but the corner & being the center of attention, can be scarey. But it's something you can practice on your mat & then carry off your mat.