Resolution: The act of solving a problem
New Year's Resolutions. Do you have them? It's mid-January. Did you have them?
We start thinking about resolutions in December. Move full-force into January with them. And by this time each year, many have forgotten about them.
I can't remember the last time I made a New Year's resolution. I think practicing yoga is at the root of that. When I hear people talk about their resolutions, it seems that they are focusing on what they don't like about themselves or their lives. As though there's a problem that needs to be fixed.
I operate as best I can using the Law of Attraction. So if I want to create a shift or a change, I focus on what's going right & how to bring about more of that. For example, if I want to eat better & feel better, instead of saying "I need to stop eating junk food", I say "I've been eating some healthy food lately - I'm going to eat more of that".
A resolution implies there's problem that needs to be fixed. When it comes to New Year's resolutions, it implies that we are the problem. We are too fat, we don't exercise enough, we've made poor choices in relationships. We want to change what we don't like in our life, but we operate from the premise that there is something wrong with us that needs to be fixed.
What if there's nothing wrong with us? What if we're just focusing on the wrong thing? What if we could shift our focus to what is working & going right & focus on attracting & creating more of that?
There's your intention. Aim for what you want more of. Even if you hate your job, there must be something about it you like (Remember when adults asked you your favorite subject in school & you said "recess"?). For anything that you want to change, start from a place of appreciating what you already have. Then aim for attracting more of that.
If you feel like you "failed" at your resolutions, let them go. Let go of the idea that somehow you failed. If you were focused on what's wrong, it's simply that your focus was off. Refocus. Feel what's right about you & your life. And then set your intentions.